2. Joint venture with your competition if you can't beat them. You could agree to work together and beat the other competition then share the profits.
3. Visit chat rooms were your potential customers would gather. You can lurk and do market research or mention your product to people.
4. Make your web site sticky by building a large directory of web sites your visitors would enjoy.
It saves them precious time searching for them.
5. Start a free-to-join business association from your web site. Just ask all members to place your association logo and link on their web site.
6. Make extra revenue for your web site by selling advertising space on your web site, in your e-zine, in your free ebooks, on your classified ad site, etc.
7. Switch your marketing plan when your market dies for your product. Be flexible and redesign your product for a different market.
8. Make your web site worth revisiting. Give your visitors original content, free ebooks, information web site links, free useful software, etc.
9. Build your opt-in e-mail list using an FFA (free -for-all links page). People can submit links to your links page and you can send them a thanks e-mail.
10. Reward your customers for giving you product feedback. It could be discounted products, useful software, information products, etc.
Quote of the Day:
"Education is the ability to listen to almost anything without losing your temper or your self-confidence." -- Robert Frost
Listening is a fantastic skill to
develop because it can
pay such big dividends. Listening skills can reduce stress,
improve relationships, help you remember names, save time
and of course, sell more. Here are 5 Cool Ideas for better listening.
1. Good listeners
practice listening.
Use your new skills to impress friends, business associates
and yourself.
2. Use simple life
moments to listen better.
Stop singing in the shower once in a while and listen. Listen
to how the water sounds as it falls around you. Try to identify
seven or eight different types of sounds. This simple exercise
will teach you to hear nuances in group dynamics and in
telephone conversations.
3. Listen to the bass
line instead of the lyric.
When in the car, listen to songs you don't normally listen to.
Listen to the musical arrangement instead of the lyrics. Try to
identify the different instruments in the arrangement. Try
listening to just one of the instruments, like the bass guitar.
4. Turn down the noise
and tune in to life.
When you really start to pay attention to sound, you'll
become aware of all the noise in our world. Block out
some of the noise by wearing ear protection when flying,
using vacuum cleaners and operating snow blowers.
Listen to the important things and tune out extraneous
offerings, like chatter.
5. Reflective listening
promotes connectivity.
Reflective listening is a way to show regard for the speaker. By
giving "verbal nods" such as saying "I see,"
"Interesting," "Hmmm,"
you relay encouragement to the speaker and promote connectivity.
It's like eye contact and nodding your head in person. Taking notes
when people talk to you is also a good listening habit. Don't hesitate
to ask people to repeat themselves. Ask immediately
so you don't feel embarrassed by asking later on.
Mr. Positive Mental Attitude
When William Clement Stone was just 3, his father died, leaving nothing but gambling debts and a widow and son in poverty.
Living with his mother and relatives in an apartment on Chicago’s rough South Side, 6-year-old Stone sold newspapers to help support the family. In this hardscrabble environment of the early 1900s, he had to compete with older boys for street-corner territory. But the young Stone was adaptable and resourceful. He began concentrating on restaurants as better places to peddle papers.
In what he later recalled as his first experience “turning a disadvantage into an advantage,” he returned repeatedly to one restaurant to try to sell papers, only to be thrown out each time by the owner. Finally, through audacity and tenacity, Stone persuaded the owner to let him set up shop. The owner soon became a great friend, and Stone continued to grow his humble newspaper enterprise. By 13, he owned his own newsstand.
In a life that spanned a century, Stone ultimately became an insurance magnate, philanthropist, publisher, best-selling author, and a pioneer in the field of personal development. Indeed, W. Clement Stone was Mr. Positive Mental Attitude.
But what made him so excited about the possibilities for success? What enabled him to see opportunity in every situation, even in adversity and failure? Colorful and fun-loving, Stone seemed to repel negativity. His life trajectory was a steep climb to ever-increasing success, with every challenge transmuted quickly into useful insight. His personal life was equally successful, married 79 years to his childhood sweetheart, with three children and 12 grandchildren. What did Stone know about living life and doing business that eludes the average person, who is so often subject to disappointment, negativity, frustration and despair?
A ‘Self-Builder’
Even as a boy peddling papers, Stone was becoming what he later described as a “self-builder” in his autobiography, The Success System That Never Fails. He was modeling his life after the inspiring Horatio Alger stories about poor boys who pulled themselves up by their bootstraps to lead lives of purpose and wealth.
When he was 16, he dropped out of high school to work for his mother at a casualty insurance agency in Detroit. He later would obtain a high-school diploma as well as some college credits, but for the time being, school would have to wait. Already an accomplished salesman and positive thinker, Stone quickly took to the insurance business. His experience selling newspapers made him a fearless cold-caller, speaking of his prospects as “gold calls.” Stone sold staggering volumes of small, inexpensive policies, at one point more than 100 in a single day.
In 1922, he returned to Chicago and, with an investment of $100, established what would become Combined Insurance Company of America (now part of ACE Corporation). The following year, he wed Jessie Verna Tarson, making good on a promise to her when he was 16 that they would marry when he turned 21.
Meantime, Stone set about building a sales force and training his employees in his developing methods and philosophy. Positive mental attitude, or PMA, was the Combined Insurance mantra. Another favorite three-letter abbreviation stood for his favorite form of fi nance—OPM or “other people’s money”—which Stone used to buy other insurance companies and expand his burgeoning empire.
Along with Combined Insurance, Stone’s business acumen, wealth, confidence and happiness grew steadily. He freely shared his sales and self-motivation experience with every salesman who cared to put his bold methods into practice.
An Irrepressible Optimist
Stone began every day by exclaiming, “I feel happy! I feel healthy! I feel terrific!” and he encouraged his employees to follow his lead. He cut an unforgettably jaunty figure with his signature thin black mustache, smart spats, and brightly patterned vests and bowties, and was seemingly indefatigable when it came to maintaining an upbeat outlook. He once said, “What’s a few million dollars? Everything’s relative.” And when he sensed attention fl agging at meetings, Stone would cry, “Bingo!”
Finance expert and journalist Terry Savage attested to Stone’s morning routine in a 2002 Chicago Sun-Times column commemorating his 100th birthday. “Once I sat a row in front of Mr. Stone on a flight to Europe. As the flight attendants were trying to rouse sleepy passengers for an early morning landing in London, I suddenly heard a loud voice behind me: ‘Stand up. Raise your arms. Repeat after me: I feel healthy! I feel happy! I feel terrific!’ And, you know, I did feel a lot less jet-lagged after I joined him in his everyday ritual,” she wrote.
Even the Great Depression couldn’t diminish Stone’s spirit. By 1930, he had 1,000 insurance agents in his employ selling life and accident insurance. He often hired people with little or no education or prospects, and was likely the catalyst for many a Horatio Alger success story.
Stone later told a New York Times reporter the Depression was a constructive influence, in that it stimulated hard work and ingenuity. It certainly seemed to have that effect for him, as he continually sought ways to increase sales and motivate agents. When he read Napoleon Hill’s seminal work, Think and Grow Rich!, he was so inspired that he distributed copies to every Combined Insurance salesman. Stone credited the resulting upswing in sales to Hill’s principles.
A Fortuitous Meeting
Some years later, Stone made a point of meeting Hill when Hill came to Chicago to give a lecture. Stone convinced him that, through their combined philosophies, they could accomplish great things and inspire people the world over—and in 1952, they began a legendary partnership. Together, they produced books, courses, lectures, and radio and television programs. In 1954, they published Success Unlimited, the predecessor to SUCCESS magazine.
In 1960, Stone and Hill published what became one of the most widely read personal-development classics, Success Through a Positive Mental Attitude. The book was an instant best-seller that attracted other disciples, including Og Mandino, who claimed it was the turning point in his life, helping him escape a downward spiral of alcoholism. Mandino later joined Combined Insurance, as well as Success Unlimited as its editor, and became a best-selling author in his own right.
By 1979, the little insurance company W. Clement Stone started with $100 in savings reached $1 billion in assets. Terry Savage remembered interviewing Stone during this time period for a stock market program on TV. “His enthusiasm for the possibilities of life burst through the camera, as stock market quotes streamed below,” she wrote. “It was as if he were exhorting the viewers to believe that they could do whatever they dreamed. And, in fact, that was his message.”
In 1980, the same year that Combined Insurance went public on the New York Stock Exchange (with the ticker symbol PMA), Stone was nominated for the Nobel Peace Prize for an illustrious life’s work that focused heavily on philanthropy. Over the years, W. Clement and Jessie Stone donated money to myriad charities and individuals, never hesitating to give if they thought the cause worthwhile.
Abundance Through Giving
A candid bit of advice from Stone originally published in Success Unlimited sums up his philanthropic beliefs: “Be generous! Give to those you love; give to those who love you; give to the fortunate; give to the unfortunate; yes—give especially to those to whom you don’t want to give. Your most precious, valued possessions and your greatest powers are invisible and intangible. No one can take them. You, and you alone, can give them. You will receive abundance for your giving. The more you give, the more you will have.”
When he died several months after his 100th birthday in 2002, W. Clement Stone had given an estimated $275 million away to charity. One of his favorite organizations was the Boys and Girls Clubs of America, and many young people went to school on his dime as part of his dedication to widespread empowerment and education of youth. The W. Clement and Jessie V. Stone Foundation that he and his wife established continues to support countless humanitarian, mental health, religious and community causes. His estate also provides funding for The Napoleon Hill Foundation.
But perhaps the most valuable contribution of W. Clement Stone’s long life was the fact that he was a happy, fulfi lled man who shared his understanding of the simple—but not necessarily easy—habits and attitudes that produce success, wealth and happiness, namely his beloved positive mental attitude. In books, articles, speeches and one-on-one encounters, he shared the universal principles of success that he had used in his own remarkable life as Mr. Positive Mental Attitude.
“All I want to do is change the world,” Stone once said. And through attitude and action, W. Clement Stone, a Horatio Alger story come to life, did exactly that.
Give Bad Habits the Boot!
By Dr.Shah Razali
Everybody has bad habits. Everybody. Now, granted, some people have less than others and some people’s bad habits are more grating than others, but we all have them. Some we know we possess and others we don’t.
Well, Dr.Shah, how can I get rid of a bad habit if I don’t know I have it? It’s simple, but hard. Ask somebody who loves you and has your best interest in mind to be brutally honest with you and tell you your bad habits.
You might think, “Yeah, but I’ll be embarrassed.” Would you rather everyone talk behind your back? Get up the courage and ask. Be gracious and don’t defend yourself. Just accept it and work on it.
What about the ones we know about? Those are the tough ones. How do I know they are tough? Because they must be tough if you know about them and yet you still have them! If they weren’t tough, they would be former bad habits!
So, how do you break a bad habit? How do you give it the boot out of your life? Here are a few things that must be a part of the plan.
1. You must want them to go.
Some people don’t want to break their bad habits. I have seen parents choose alcohol over their children. I have seen smokers continue smoking while watching their parents die of emphysema. You first must go deep into the recesses of your heart and ask, “Do I really want to give this up?”
2. You do?
Good. Step Two: Make a list of all the reasons you want to quit your bad habits. Make them positive. Make the list long! Start with the really powerful and dramatic if you need to. Now memorize them. You are making connections between stopping the bad behavior with the good things you will get from doing so. If you want to lose weight, then picture yourself slim and looking good in those thin-people clothes! If you want to stop smoking, picture your wife actually kissing you rather than sending you to the bathroom to brush your teeth!
3. Choose.
Once you have the information, it comes down to one thing: It is an act of will. Choose to do it. Say to yourself throughout the day, “I am choosing to…” Eisenhower rightly said, “The history of free men is never written by chance, but by choice—their choice.” It is your choice. You can write your history.
4. Take action!
Step Four is tricky because there are two philosophies about this. One theory is that you must take massive action. You must go all or nothing. Using the weight-loss example, this person would spend $500 to join a gym, rework their schedule and hit the treadmill every day for a year. They would get rid of all fatty foods in the house—they would go all out! That works for some. Others would burn out on that, feel like failures and be worse off than before. They should start out slow, taking baby steps, but working diligently toward a planned goal. This person would decide to start walking three days a week. They would decide to limit dessert to two nights a week, down from seven. See how this works? Either way is OK, as long as you get to the goal eventually. Which one are you?
5. Tell somebody.
This is your accountability partner. Tell them your goal and tell them your plan. Write it down for them, and have them ask you on regular intervals about your progress. This will prove invaluable!
6. Recover from failure.
Inevitably, most people have setbacks. The key is to ensure they’re setbacks, not “turnbacks”! Pick yourself up and get going again. Some people may want to lose 30 pounds, and after losing 15, they eat a gallon of ice cream. They feel bad and give up. Don’t! Reset your goal for another two weeks and get going again. Say to yourself, “Sometimes you win, and sometimes you learn.”
7. Reward yourself.
That’s right. You should regularly congratulate yourself by rewarding yourself with some gift to yourself. Start small with small victories, and plan a big one when you are finally over the habit.
Is it that simple? Most of the time, no. Habits are hard to break. There are so many intangibles, it would be hard to cover them all. But this is a simple and workable plan that will help you make great strides if you apply the principles.
Get going! Give those bad habits the boot! Good luck!


